What an
honor it is to wake up in the morning - or the middle of the night, I'm not too
sure these days because I'm in Europe so jet lag, time changes and travel times
have left my internal clock completely confused, to read your wonderful stories
that have been coming through my website - WOW!
You
continue to inspire me with your stories of taking risk, embracing change and
as one person said 'flipping the bird' to your fears and doubts when they try
to tell you that 'you can't do that!'
A
remarkable person recently wrote through my website,
"I find myself at a time of
change and I realize I am afraid."
The woman
who wrote that statement above is an INCREDIBLY inspirational and brilliant
woman, no one would ever guess for one second based on her public achievements
that she could actually fear change but she does because WE ALL DO.
We are all afraid of change, but
when we feel that fear we must rejoice because it means that a) we are
alive and thriving and able to feel these powerful emotions and b) it means we
have stepped out of our comfort zones which is a very difficult but necessary
thing to do because that is where the Performance Zone is. Scientists define
the Performance Zone as a state of increased fear, anxiety and stress where we
are forced to learn new skills - even just coping skills, but it is a
PERFORMANCE zone that is going to take us forward to an entirely new and
exciting place called the magic zone.
The Magic Zone is where
everything and anything is possible, namely miracles to us humble humans. If
you think back to anything you ever accomplished in life you will see the
sequence of moving out of your comfort zone, having those uncomfortable
feelings in the performance zone but being resilient despite this and then POOF you accomplished your goal or more than likely BEYOND what your initial intent was. It's a
great idea to remember those times when you are feeling anxious and nervous.
So
embrace the fear because you are almost there and what you are feeling is
perfectly normal, in fact, it would be abnormal if you didn't feel those things.
You ARE brilliant, it is people like YOU that kept me going when I was trying
to get published and each rejection letter that came in threatened to send me
into permanent hiding under the covers to eat an endless supply of potato chips
;-)
The very
fact that we are alive should be all the proof we need that we are destined to
live the life we want and we can't do that if we are living within our comfort
zones. This is it, this Really. Is. It. (Insert billboard surrounded by
flashing neon lights here).
We've all
known people who have died with regrets of not taking chances but I've never
met anyone that regretted taking a chance - have you? The only thing holding us
back are those pesky little twerps called doubt and fear so as one brilliant
woman recently said, 'Damn the Torpedoes' and damn them indeed and damn the
potato chips that I still want to eat despite having been published...
The
heartwarming stories of love and loss and coping with grief you have sent reinforce
to me that at our deepest core we are all the same and no matter how difficult
life can be, we can help each other weather any storm.
And
speaking of friends, a few days ago I had the pleasure of reuniting with my
dear friend Melanie in Stockholm, Sweden. You may remember from the book that
Melanie was the German journalist I met in South Africa on the elephant
sanctuary project who later joined me for two days on the Big Five Conservation
project.
Although
our visit was brief, the friendship that was born while volunteering in Africa is
one that will last a lifetime and as for future adventures together?
Absolutely!
The photo
at the beginning of this article is of a German Steiff lion Melanie just gave
me to commemorate our time in South Africa with the lions.
Please
keep sending in your beautiful stories and keep pushing the boundaries of your
comfort zones!
Live with courage or die with
regret
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